By Carol Gumbo
Often l have a lot of Christian single ladies who desperately want to be in a
relationship saying they met a guy or know a guy from church who is
"saved" and they have started seeing each other, or are spending
loads of time talking on the phone or skyping etc but some how there is no
commitment from the guy. They give excused like we are seeing each other, we
are not in a relationship but are exclusive, or things like the guy disappears
for a while and comes back and starts calling a lot, flirting but never really
stating their intentions.
If this is you l am sorry to say but you have been
put in a waiting room, where this guy knows that if he picks up the phone you
will gladly pick up and entertain him while he still looking for greener grass
and not making a commitment to a relationship with intent to marry. This is the
waiting room, were you are hoping that things will work out and that this guy
will come and make a commitment, while you are in that waiting room which God
never instructed you to be in you are praying asking God to make things work
with this guy. what you might not realize is that the right godly spouse for
you might be in God's waiting room looking for you but you are so focused in
this waiting room that God never told you to go in praying for some miracle or
for God to rubber stamp this supposed relationship or thing you have going on.
Mean while God is saying no my daughter leave you
life taking head of my direction have l not told you that I will instruct you
and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye. (Psalms
32:8 NKJV) God will instruct you to the right place and right someone for you
he has told you that But those who wait on the Lord Shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint. (Isaiah 40:31 NKJV).
Today l say wait on God because if you wait on him
you will not get weary or faint or heart broken, because God will instruct you
and bring you to the right person at the appointed time. God knows you have a
desire to get married and that desire is not a bad thing however do not make it
your main focus more than your personal relationship with God because when you
do you will end up in Mr Right now who will break your heart and use you to
fulfill his own personal needs and leave you heart broken when he has finally
found someone whom he wants to commit to.
So today l ask you again which wait room are you
God's or Mr Right now you decide, if you are in Mr Right now's waiting room you
can make a decision today and say no more l choose to wait on God and be who He
has called you to be while you patiently wait on God.
SHARED FROM: Talking About Christian Walk,Relationships, Love and Romance
with Sigoluhle Mandizha (https://www.facebook.com/1LovePage?ref=stream&hc_location=stream)
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